Grief Letter

Brown string‑tie envelope lying on a dark surface. The envelope is made of thick kraft paper with a circular button-and-string closure at the top. A white rectangular label on the front reads “RELIEF LETTER” in bold capital letters. The envelope appears unopened and neatly positioned, suggesting it contains an important or official document.

Grief Letter was an ever‑expanding art installation housed in the atmospheric Crypt Gallery in London, bringing together personal stories of loss, love, and remembrance. As part of this evolving collection, Alison contributes a deeply intimate letter written in 2022 to her partner, Dave, who was lost during the first wave of COVID‑19. Composed two years after his death, her letter reflects the enduring impact of pandemic grief, the quiet rituals of remembrance, and the power of written words to hold space for love that continues long after loss. This piece forms a poignant thread within the wider installation, inviting visitors to connect with the shared human experience of mourning and memory.

Handwritten letter on clean white paper, written by Alison Little to her late partner David, who died during the COVID pandemic. The letter opens with updates on football and personal changes—Rafa Benitez’s brief tenure at Everton, speculation about Steven Gerrard managing Liverpool, and the dissolution of a once-close group of four. Alison shares that she’s doing Dry January and retraining as a software development artist. The tone shifts to tender longing as she describes a cherished memory: David returning from a match, sitting beside her, their hands touching as they watched Match of the Day. She recalls his sparkling eyes and glowing cheeks, ending the letter with “Evermore Alison x.” The page is bordered with neat, softened graphics that frame the intimate message.
Grief Letter

A new edition of Letters to Forever is now available to purchase. This 400‑page book gathers all 215 grief letters from the project — including this letter — alongside a curated selection of drawings created in response to them. Each copy comes with an A5 giclée print chosen at random and a personalised message, making it a meaningful keepsake for anyone connected to the installation.

For readers interested in exploring grief through creative practice, Wonder and Loss: A Practical Memoir for Writing about Grief offers a thoughtful and accessible place to begin.

Book cover for Wonder and Loss: A Practical Memoir for Writing about Grief by Sam Meekings. The design features a black tree silhouette against a light beige background, overlaid with colourful geometric shapes and an orange sun-like semicircle. Published by Bloomsbury.
Wonder and Loss
A Practical Memoir for Writing about Grie
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Unpacked offers a psychiatrist’s deep exploration of our shared experience of the COVID‑19 pandemic, providing a more in‑depth reflection on collective grief.

Bright orange book cover featuring the title “UNPACKED” in bold white lettering above an illustration of an open cardboard box. The subtitle reads “A psychiatrist explores and unpacks our collective experience of the COVID‑19 pandemic”, with the author’s name Dr. Sara Coffey printed below. The design is clean and modern, using the open box as a visual metaphor for reflection and exploration.
Unpacked

The Sitting with Sadness Journal is a thoughtful companion for anyone navigating grief, offering gentle prompts that help translate emotions into words and guide you through the healing process.

Soft‑toned journal cover titled SITTING WITH SADNESS. The design features a hand‑drawn red chair casting a purple shadow, centered against a light background. Beneath the title, the subtitle reads: “Prompts for grief’s messier thoughts and feelings.” The minimalist illustration and gentle typography evoke a calm, introspective mood, suggesting the journal is designed to support emotional healing and personal reflection.
Sitting with Sadness
Journal

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4 responses to “Grief Letter”

  1. Reading that letter made me wonder what I might write that I want more of if ever my sweetheart should leave this earth before I do… and therefore, I got up and gave him a heartfelt hug tight then and there! “Don’t tell the folks I was a saint/or any old thing that I ain’t/ If you have jam like that to spread/ Please pass it out before I’m dead” – – – a poem my mom used to recite often. Yup, got good things to remember, double them up now!!

  2. You’re missing a t in your intro ‘Artist’. Said with ❤️. A bit like having your skirt tucked into your knickers. Best to know 🤣

    Enjoyed the grief letters.

  3. […] 💌 Grief Letter: Letters to Forever – Crypt Gallery, London […]

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