Abandoned Your New Year’s Resolutions? Here’s How to Begin Again

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As a new year dawns, many of us wake up on a damp January morning filled with good intentions. Many will already have been abandoned by now, here’s how to reset. In 2026, the focus continues to centre on health, wellbeing, balance, and emotional resilience.

Here are five classic New Year’s resolutions, refreshed for modern life, that still deliver real results when done consistently.


1. Drink Less Alcohol (Try Dry January)

One of the most popular New Year’s resolutions every year is to reduce alcohol consumption. Whether it’s cutting back or quitting temporarily, many people begin with Dry January, a proven reset for both mind and body.

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Belvoir Farm Non-Alcoholic Peach Bellini

Smart Substitutions That Work

For those whose “after-work drink” often turns into an all-night session, replacing the ritual—not just the alcohol—makes all the difference.

  • Hot chocolate made on the hob with real milk, whipped cream, and marshmallows
  • Alcohol-free spirits paired with premium mixers
  • Mocktails inspired by BBC Good Food recipes

A pear and spiced mock “rum” punch, anyone? It may finally dethrone the tired mulled apple juice.

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Zero Proof Drinks & More

2. Boost Fitness and Get Moving

If your goal is to get fitter in 2026, you’re not alone. Running remains one of the most accessible and effective fitness activities worldwide.

Start Where You Are

If running feels daunting, begin with walking. The NHS Couch to 5K app remains a gold-standard, free programme that gently builds endurance over nine weeks.

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Garmin Forerunner

Train With Purpose

If you already run, training for an event can provide powerful motivation. Many long-distance runners began with a charity race, such as a 5K fundraiser, before progressing to half or full marathons.

Training tip:
Structure your week with:

  • 2 mid-week shorter runs
  • 1 long weekend run
    Increase distance gradually by half to one mile per week.

If running isn’t your thing, choose a sport you enjoy—cycling, swimming, yoga, or team sports—and consider joining a local club for accountability.


3. Eat Healthier Without Going to Extremes

Healthy eating doesn’t mean swapping joy for deprivation. It’s about better choices, more often.

Simple Nutrition Wins

  • Aim for 5 portions of fruit and vegetables per day
  • Choose skinless chicken or turkey instead of red meat
  • Replace crisps with yoghurt or nuts
  • Opt for nut-based chocolate for slower energy release

When it comes to dessert, carrot cake (with nuts and veg content) beats a triple-chocolate cream-laden slab every time.

Small swaps add up—no crash diets required.

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10L Air Fryer

4. Finish That Half-Done Project

We all have one: the garage, the spare room, the cupboard under the stairs.

The secret to finally finishing lingering projects is breaking big tasks into small, time-limited chunks.

The 2-Hour Rule

  • Divide the project into manageable steps
  • Work in focused two-hour blocks
  • Spread tasks across several weekends

For example:

  • Weekend 1: clear one cupboard
  • Weekend 2: paint walls
  • Weekend 3: paint woodwork

You’ll finish faster—and with less stress—than endlessly postponing an overwhelming “full day” task.

5. Let Go of Deep-Rooted Resentment

This may be the hardest—but most transformative—resolution of all.

Resentment towards a partner, workplace, institution, or individual can silently drain your emotional health.

As Dr Drew famously said:

“Resentment is like swallowing poison and expecting the other person to die.”

A Practical 4-Step Process to Release Resentment

A. List
Write down all people, organisations, or situations you resent.

B. Identify Why
Next to each, note exactly why the resentment exists.

C. Understand the Impact
How has this affected your life? Confidence, safety, trust, or grief?

D. Shift Perspective
Without self-blame, reflect on where your own actions—or inaction—played a role.

Finally, reread what you’ve written slowly. You may keep the pages for reflection or destroy them as part of a personal letting-go ritual.

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing others—it’s about freeing yourself.

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Freedom from Resentment

Make 2026 Your Strongest Year Yet

New Year’s resolutions don’t need to be radical to be powerful. When approached with intention and realism, these timeless goals can help you become:

  • Fitter
  • Healthier
  • More organised
  • Emotionally lighter

Here’s to a stronger, calmer, more balanced 2026—one small habit at a time.

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3 responses to “Abandoned Your New Year’s Resolutions? Here’s How to Begin Again”

  1. I so don’t do resolutions

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  2. Interesting exercise, Alison.

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  3. Great Goals and thanks for the follow Alison.
    I’m now following you as well!
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