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Wedding season is here, and with it comes the age-old question—what gift should you get? Start by thinking about the couple. What do they enjoy? Do they live together already? Do they have children? And how much should you spend?

Sometimes you know one half of the couple well and the other not at all. Maybe she’s a close friend from university, and he’s someone you’ve only seen online. Or maybe he’s a colleague who keeps his personal life private. The nature of your relationship with them can help guide your gift choice.

If the couple doesn’t live together yet, gift-buying can be extra fun—more rooms to furnish and practical items to consider. A jug that doubles as a vase or a stylish serving bowl could be a hit. These days, though, most couples already live together, so you may want to aim for more unique, thoughtful gifts.

Ethical or faith-based considerations also matter. If the couple practices a religion that’s new to you, take care to choose something respectful. Eco-friendly gifts are another great option—think recycled glassware, handmade decor, or local artisan pieces.

If one of them is described as a “hippie,” it might just mean a love for vintage or sustainable living. A photo album made from handmade paper, or a glass cloche a cloche could be a fun option!

For those who aren’t familiar, a cloche is like a glass cover that looks a bit like something you get on a cake stand. Novenary has a lovely one for just over £25; it’ll look great on the wedding day and can be paired with a more unique gift that they might not expect.

Do they have children? If there’s a toddler around, fragile gifts may not be practical. A family game, an experience day, or a family ticket to a local attraction might be more appreciated. For blended families or second marriages, group gifts or experiences can feel more inclusive.

Always check the wedding list—it’s not just for the elite anymore. Even if you don’t buy from it, it’s a window into the couple’s taste. Stores like John Lewis offer elegant options, while places like Habitat bring a more laid-back vibe.

Budget-wise, go with what feels comfortable. If you’re not attending the ceremony but want to gift something, a small, thoughtful token is perfect. If you’re buying as a group, be mindful of everyone’s budget. A modest candle holder given with care is just as meaningful as a hand-blown vase.

Stuck for ideas? Champagne is a safe bet—Highland Fayre offers a bottle in a personalised wooden box. Once you’ve chosen your gift, wrap it nicely. You don’t need expensive paper—just a clean, neat presentation. A bit of tissue, ribbon, or a recycled box works wonders.

Don’t forget the card! Write at least a few heartfelt sentences celebrating their new chapter. Avoid clichés and write by hand if you can—it adds a personal touch.

With the gift and card sorted, don’t forget your own prep: outfit, travel, and childcare. Once that’s done, you’re ready to show up, raise a glass, and enjoy the celebration!

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